•   If I go to a meeting, will I have to talk?

No one is required to talk at any meeting. 
We understand how difficult that can be when our grief is so fresh. We do ask that you listen, however.

•   My child was an adult and didn't live at home.
   Can I still go to a meeting?

Chapter meetings are open to all families who have
experienced the death of a child, at any age, from any cause. Regardless of age, we in TCF believe our children
will always be thought of as just that.....our children.

•  Is there a charge to attend?

There is never a charge to attend a TCF meeting. 
Our chapters rely on voluntary donations from members, friends and the community at large.

•  What happens at a meeting?
  
   Some meetings are simply introducing ourselves 
   and sharing our thoughts and feelings. At other times, 
   chapters have short programs before the sharing time.
   The programs may include a brief guest speaker,
   viewing a video tape, or listening to an audio tape.

•   Can I bring a friend with me?
  
  Of course, you can bring a friend, but we ask that they, as well as all members, respect each other's privacy.
  It is important for us to be able to share freely within  our group and be sure confidences will be respected.

•  My partner says they won't come with me. 
  Can I come alone?

Yes. We all grieve differently and they may not be ready 
to take part just yet...or ever.  And, likewise, many
parents attend meetings without their partners.

•   My child died from AIDS. Will I still be welcome?
  
  Yes. All families who have experienced the death of a child at any age, from any cause, are welcome.

•   Religion doesn't matter to me anymore.
    Can people at a meeting accept that?
  
  I think you will find TCF members are very tolerant of any views. After the death of a child, many priorities, as well as values, change.

•   I notice the meeting is in a church.
   Do I have to belong to a church to attend?
  
  TCF has no religious affiliation. 
  Chapters meetings are held in a wide variety of locations depending upon what is available in our communities.

•    I have baby-sitting problems. 
  Would it be all right to bring my child with me?
  
  While we understand the difficulties of finding child care,
  we must ask that any children attending with you be old enough to understand the meeting discussions and not be upset by them.  Some chapters have sibling groups for children sixteen or older; check with your local chapter about this.

•   Do I need a reservation before I come to a meeting?

   No reservations are needed. Just come whenever you feel up to it.

•    My child died several years ago, and I postponed my grief work.  Now it's catching up with me. Is it too late to come now?
  
        We all grieve differently. Many parents don't feel the need
   of a support group until years after the death of a child.
   It's all right to come whenever you are ready, whether it's soon
  after your child's death, months later or years later.